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50 Timeless Pieces Of Advice About Love & Relationships

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Found on AskReddit.


Don’t stay with someone who antagonizes you or belittles you.


If you feel lonely, you’re better off being alone.


Know when to walk away.


You can gauge a person’s love for you by how they treat you when they are upset with you.


Love is a verb, not a noun.


When a lightbulb goes out, you fix the lightbulb. You don’t get a new house.


Don’t settle for someone who has zero regard for your feelings or wants just because you’ve been together a long time.


Just because you love each other does not mean that you’re good together long-term.


No relationship is perfect and there will be conflict. What matters is the desire to solve the problem.


Always fight the problem, not the other person. If you keep this in mind when arguing, you’ll…

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Sometimes I don’t know if I really love myself. I allow people in my life and pretend that I won’t care if they’d leave right away. It’s like saying, “Oh hey. I want you to stay but I’m not saying anything cause i’m acting cool and it’s nothing, right?” When in fact, they actually make me happy and hurt me, as well. I feel like I’m giving them a chance to hurt me just to feel that I’m special even for just a moment. When will the time come that a person wouldn’t just pass by and give me his permanent attention?

17 Things Only Lazy Productive People Understand


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1. You’ll have certain days where you get super inspired and decide to clean out your whole room. But then halfway through, you get tired and bored and decide you’ll save the rest for another day.

2. “Another day” doesn’t come for another 5-6 days, so you just spend that time trying to live around the mess that is all over your bedroom.

3. And then finally, miraculously, you’ll get so wrapped up in just getting shit done that you’ll finish this project with about 4 bins worth of crap to get rid of, a brand new organized and beautiful room, and tons of space. Which will last you for a delightful but short amount of time.

4. You’re one of the world’s worst (or best?) procrastinators. You put off doing anything mildly unpleasant until the last minute, and then you work your ass off for two days straight…

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You’re Not a “Plan B” Kind of Girl


DeathtoStock_Spring7You deserve better than someone who is afraid to commit to you. It may seem like enough for now. You’re just taking things slow. Oh, how I know those little phrases of “one day” and we just need time.

You believe them.
And I’ve believed them.

But you’re not a “Plan B” kind of girl.

You need to know that you’re not the invisible one standing in the back who gets chosen last.

You’re the girl who the team captain will be frantically hoping doesn’t get picked by someone else before he gets a turn. You’re a first-pick kind of girl. And no one worth having sits back and lets those girls wait around.

‘Cause every good man knows that the good ones get gone fast.

He should be jumping out of his skin in anticipation to call out your name and say “I pick you.”

“But he’s…

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12 Things You Should Know Before You Date A Girl Who Loves Pizza

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1. She’s always going to expect you to be on time. (Just like her favorite delivery driver).

2. If you’re the kind of person who throws your pizza crust away you might as well expect to never hear from her again. What kind of monster throws away the best part?

3. Just like her favorite food, she’s the best guest at any social event. She’s always welcomed warmly and knows how to be the life of the party.

4. She’s ride or die over garlic dipping sauce.

5. You never have to worry about having arguments with her about where to eat. If you get in a bind about where to go you know the default can always be pizza. Warm, gooey, delicious pizza.

6. She’s super relaxed and accommodating. You want to stay in and relax and watch Netflix? Sweet. You want to go out to the club on…

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He tweeted if he could call anyone at the moment. And the urge. Oh the urge to tweet back, “Me! Me! You can call me. I ain’t doing anything. And I want to listen to you.”

But I can’t. It would be too awkward.

The percentage of rejection in the seen zone way would be 90 to 10. I couldn’t go through that again.

I’m passed that.

I guess I’ll just leave it to Tin and the Hommies. It’s their friend anyway.

Just Not Me

For some reason, I still want to be that person whom you miss. Whom you’re “hugot-ing” about. Whom you’re having problems with. Whom you’re feeling depressed about. Whom you want to be with.

It couldn’t be me because ours was just a fling. We just saw each other around last year. But I felt that it was something real 8 weeks ago.

It couldn’t be me because you like somebody else. You like a lot of people.

It couldn’t be me because I was just another girl who you flirted with.

It couldn’t be me because I am nothing.

My eyes wonders around if it would see you. Telling myself that I hope I don’t. But in truth, I want to.

My stomach crumbles whenever I thought I saw you. Or whenever I feel that you’re around. It’s like, I have this detector inside of me that goes crazy whenever I feel you.

Don’t mistaken that I’m not over you.

I am.

It’s just that.

I want to feel that I really meant something to you. Because you meant something to me.

I hope you could read this. I wish you could read this. I want you to read this.

But I don’t have the guts to do so.

So I’ll just do what I’ve been doing.

Wait until all of this fades… and be forgotten.